I have been in an on and off again relationship with a guy who I really do love. We are both in our 30's and have been together two and a half years. During that time we have broken up twice, both because of some emotional issues he has.
He is a good guy, but finds it's quite hard to be loving and I found that made me quite insecure. He had a lot of issues growing up and you can clearly see it's affected him in relationships. I have had long term relationships, whereas he has not before me. After a while of everything seeming ok in the past, he has shut down and ended it, saying he prefers to be alone.
Now he has come back, says he is ready to 'grow up', I have to move out of my place this week and he has found a place for us together. He would never have mentioned living together before, he had massive commitment issues. I'm massively scared and am wondering what should I do.... I have told him how scared I am but he says he's showing me with actions now and that he doesn't want to regret losing me.
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TionBan · 19/04/2020 18:50
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