A situation arose today and I am not sure the best way to deal with it, so looking to you lot for advice...
My ex Step FIL was in previous marriage before marrying my Ex MIL, he had two kids who he lost contact with quite quickly (he left to be with my exMIL, said the wife turned kids against him, visits traumatic and he thought best just to cut all ties)
He suddenly had phone contact from old family last year to say now grown up daughter was gravely ill, contact was bitter from them and finished within a week.
In a very strange twist of fate, far too complicated to explain, it emerged today that the daughter is the best friend of someone I work with. The daughter is still gravely ill, wants nothing to do with her Dad and her friend has got the knives out ready for him.
It is unlikely, but not impossible, that the friend could bump into my exstepFIL as he still helps me out (picking up kids from school etc.)
Ok, do I just keep my head down and not mention to ex's family that I have this connection with his daughter? Do I tell them and then ban exstepFIL from coming near workplace?
Chances are nothing too dramatic is going to happen but got a bad feeling this is a huge can of worms ready to explode...
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redapple · 13/09/2007 21:21
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