I realise this is a bit niche but wondered if anyone else has experience of growing up in a family where one parent was either absent or abusive/distant, and this led to the other parent basically turning one of the children into a surrogate spouse?
It happened in my family between my brother and mother and until the last few weeks I didn't even know there was a name for it. I wondered if anyone who does have experience of it could talk about the effect it had on their family, or if anyone with knowledge on it could recommend some reading. There doesn't seem to be a huge amount out there.
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Schmackers · 08/04/2020 11:45
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