need a proverbial dose of reality
I have posted about my husband before.
he is (was) a heavy cannabis user - it turns out he has been spending £300-400/month on this habit.I posted previously as 'sosickoftheweed'
He has violent mood swings and I have posted about his agressive behaviour with the children before too. When he is 'nice' he is fine; but he is increasingly horrible and unpredictable. When like theis he is very verbally abusive to me and about me to the children
almost 3 weeks ago he lost his temper with our middle son (5) and hit him around the head, hard iwth an open hand. The whole stuation escaleated as I stood between him and our son, It was very ugly.
I managed to leave with all the children only by threatening to call the police.
we left and stayed with my brother for a week; he took an overdose, was abusive to everyone and he eventually left the house. I have changed the locks.
he is now very remorseful, has stopped smoking cannabis and thinks he is bipolar.He has an appointment with a psychiatrist next week
I am inclined to think he is being manipulative; he is an addict and i do not think he has fully faced up to what he has done.........
but feel very guilty and if he ere ill I feel I should forgive him.....
please tell me my feelings are normal and that if I stay strong they will pass; please remind me of the effect of violence on small children.......
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OK I've left him but am feeling very guilty
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lemonstartree · 12/09/2007 19:02
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