I have Aspergers and husband thinks I'm rude

karisa282 · 2020-02-28 20:38:38

My husband says I am rude the way I talk and demand things for example when I was sick last year with norovirus I kept asking him to "bring me water " and he said the way I ask is rude And I told him people with Aspergers don't mean to be rude We just keep going round in circles He doesn't educate himself about Aspergers when I have meltdowns he says " control yourself " He just doesn't get it. I wish he can step in my shoes and realise how hard it is to raise two kids with Aspergers.

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