I would appreciate any guidance/advice from people who may have felt similar.
I feel heartbroken before I even know for sure, but I get the feeling DH has fallen out of love with me. Married 5 1/2yrs, 3DC. I do suffer with depression and anxiety which I think he struggles with, but I feel he isn't interested enough to try and stop me getting in my ruts sometimes. He is always up for sex but other than that he isn't really showing any affection, he works hard, I'm a sahm which I also struggle with but the dynamics of our location, his job and the zero support system we have means I can't work. I need a lot of emotional support as I'm so isolated, I don't have a sole to talk to, nor the confidence to meet anybody locally. He loves his hobbies, fishing and metal detecting and I suppose I resent him doing either because they don't include us, he is so passionate about them I actually despise listening to him talk about them because here I am completely cut off and there he is moaning he has worked all week and just wants some time out to himself to do his hobbies. I don't know what else to add, I just feel like he has checked out of our marriage and would either love a wife who lets him do what he wants when he wants, or no wife at all and it's making me so sad. Any advice?
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I think my husband has fallen out of love
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whereishappyat · 11/09/2019 19:09
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