My wedding is next week and I’ve fallen for another guy

strawberries98 · 2019-05-15 13:26:52

My wedding is literally next week and I’ve managed to fall for another guy. I don’t know what to do. My parents are not letting me cancel. My worries to my fiancé are falling on deaf ears. He said that we have done too much planning to cancel the wedding now. I don’t know if I should get married to my fiancé and forget about the other guy (easiest option) or cancel the wedding and cause massive repercussions. I don’t even know if dating the other guy will work out in the long run. My fiancé and I have been dating for 4 years with 3 of them long distance ( seeing each other 4x a year). We aren’t the perfect match but we get along fairly well. We have had our ups and downs but because we were sick of the long distance we decided to get married a few months ago.

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