Sat in hotel, the sick feeling of its all over hasn't quite hit me yet. It will of course.
Been together many years, just under 10. Lived together 6 years.
Anyway all the ins ands outs really don't matter now, I have to Gain strength and find the way to be on my own, sort of not feeling to scared, although again I'm sure this will come.
He suffers with depression, I'm so in love with him, I feel like an absolute failure as I can do nothing to help him.
But I'm at the stage now where my mental health is also so so fragile, I keep quiet, I talk, I do things I feel are the right things, I try to be normal, I try to not rock the boat, I try to gauge the atmosphere, I live on egg shells, I feel I have to think of the end result before proceeding with anything.
It's got so much worse lately, well the last three years to be honest.
My goodness I love him with all my heart and feel so bad that this is now happening
We both have strange ways but I thought we could understand and always have each other to feel safe with.
Tonight I've actually realised this isn't good for each of us, we are not going to make it. I'm no good for him, I can't make him better.
This leaves me in a hotel room, I have a job, minimum wage, please help me and tell me how to leave and find a place to live.
I do not hate him or blame or resent him, l love him with every breath I take, I just feel he doesn't love me, and from what he says to me it won't be long before I too am having a break down.
Tomorow will arrive shortly and I need to deal with this.
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unbelievablystrong · 09/12/2018 19:45
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