Sexual partners and friend shaming...

Jessad0487 · 2018-11-15 19:19:22

So having a normal conversation with a very very close friend the other day , she ask me how many men I've shagged and if my hubs knows. I told her more than 35 less than 50 because I do not feel that's a question I owe anyone an answer to. And no hubby doesn't know, I also don't know his number. I am 31 and we met when I was 25 almost 26. I have had two other relationships both lasting around 1.5 years and I was totally faithful. I was extremely wild during high school when single and during uni when I was single. I know without a doubt hubby has not been with many women because he always had relationships. Now, do I regret this. Yes of course! But this so called friend of mine told me I should bow my head in shame and pray my hubby never learns of this. Well, he never asked me so that tells me he doesn't care to know. I told him I had a past that I was wild in and which I regret. He didn't ask for more details and this was years and years ago!! We are so very happy and in love. We have successful careers and a lovely 2 year old. But this has me thinking.... am I a bad person for having a wild past that I learned from and that I do think led me where I should be? And anyone care to share numbers... how old and how many sexual partners? Does your hubby know? Any regrets on your end about your past? Just hoping to find some similar histories as my own

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