I've NC as I need a little advice on my husband. We've been together twelve years married 3 with 2 children and 1 on the way. Im finding I'm becoming less and less attractive to my husband for the following reasons. He constantly talks about his bowel movements so casually and even we were out for dinner last night just the two of us and he goes whilst I'm eating I was a little constipated this morning but then had two poos. I felt this was completely inappropriate as it had nothing to do with the conversation we were having. I've hinted at him and told him directly I don't need to know as it's not the first time. Some days he goes two days without showering which I feel is really disgusting. He claims he'll have a shower in the gym then doesn't make the gym for various reasons and will come home go to bed sometimes try have sex with me, get up and go into work again then have a shower that day at the gym. His reason for not showering everyday is to not dry out his skin. When we watch tv together he'll sit there picking his nose/feet/toes constantly. I'm all for feeling comfortable around your partner but I'm finding this level just a tad off putting. How do I address this in a nice way without hurting his feelings. These bad habits have gotten increasingly worse the last few years.
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