I don't even know how to explain it anymore.
I slept with an ex when we were on a break. Had been split for over a month. Has since blamed me for cheating.
He checks my phone regularly, but will do it secretively
Accuses me of cheating all the time as "I've done it before"
I have had to give up Facebook.
He comments on hair/makeup/clothing.
He gaslights me.
Has assaulted me on more than one occasion (police reports)
Treats me like shit. Emotional abuse, constantly feel like I'm walking on egg shells. For example, tonight I said I wanted to go home from the pub, he said I wanted to go for different reasons. I had to get some stuff from his house.
Instead of acting like an adult, he chucked all my stuff out of the bedroom window to make a scene. But of course it will look like it was me!
I feel like I'm addicted to him. I don't know how I feel about him anymore. But I can't seem to get away from him.
Any advice as I can't carry on like this any more. It's killing me
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thelaststraw123 · 15/07/2018 20:55
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