I met somebody on OLD 1st Feb. We have met twice and spoken pretty much everyday since.
After the 2nd time we met I cooled things off because I thought I was just in love with the idea of him but when we were together it didn't feel quite the same.
For a week or so after we didn't communicate much and it was clear he was upset that thing might not continue. At the time I just said I don't think I was ready for someone else in my life. I've got an 8 month old and been single since pregnancy. Own my own house, work full time when I return next month, also studying to further my career.
He has a 2 year old and has his own home, good job etc. I thought we really clicked. He isn't my usual type as I used to go for guys who couldn't keep a job, no ambition of owning or privately renting and rather ponce of everyone else. Don't know if that bit is relevant.
After the week or so of cooling things off we got back to chatting like we did before. He was very understanding and is happy to take things as slow as I need. He's the loveliest, kindest, thoughtful person I've ever known.
So why every time it gets closer to meeting him again I start worrying and panicking and not thinking I can do it. Everything he is is everything I could need or want in a person but there's something stopping me.
I used to be the person who jumped straight in relationships without a second thought even though in hindsight it was wrong.
Any help appreciated
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MinnieMouse7 · 24/03/2018 09:54
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