This could be quite long, so I'm sorry!
Where to start, been with my partner now for 3 years, we own a house and have joint finances and no kids! In her last relationship the bloke cheated on her, on a night out on the piss! I bet you can see where this is going! First year we was together I went out maby once or twice a month, started off ok, but as the year went on she started to get funny with me, now it just ends in arguments, I have been out twice since October last year, missing mates birthdays and stuff, I think I've got to the point of not bothering because it just makes my life easier!
We was discussing holidays, and we have one booked up, she wants to book another holiday, it's not cheap either, £3000 we just cannot afford it!
Anyone one of my friends has invited me to a weekend away, flights and hotel it will cost £200, I spoke to my partner about it, she didn't seem to bothered but then she won't let on until the next day, and it's so obvious that's she pissed off, she is off with me through texts, and barely speaks to me when we are at home, I find it very frustrating because she completely shuts down and refuse to talk/argue about it
The last thing I wanna rant about, never really used to bother me but recently I'm starting to resent it alot, we never really have money for nice days out and stuff like that, I can't remember the last time I could really afford to but myself some new cloths, but pretty much every weekend she will go out a buy new cloths, Not cheap stuff either, she will put it on her credit card, she will usaly spend around £700-£1000 month on her credit card, but her dad will just pay it off for her every month, I get that it's her dad and not nothing to do with with me but I'm the one that has to drive her to places and walk round bored out of my mind while she shops, I see stuff I like but I don't have the money to buy it!
Sorry for the rant, sorry if it makes no sense it's late and I'm tired
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She's kicked off again
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