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Blackkitten · 2018-02-17 16:52:05

I am in total shock. Woke up this morning to find DP has stolen my car, computer and stolen my bank card and made several purchases. This is someone only a few hours declaring undying love. We had a lovely evening out and came home, he wanted sit and watch shit TV I didn't , so played pool with my son and gf. No cross words no argument but because I did this it justifies above. He has taken everything. He has texted but unable to say what I have done other than he has made out I was drunk and smoking weed, which is total bollocks. My friends and family will be delighted he has gone as they think he is bad news. I have spent past 6 months defending him as I love him and thought we could have had a wonderful life but it is all over. I have several texts trying to justify himself , pretty shocking really. We are no spring chickens btw and this sort of things should not be happening. Feeling pretty heartbroken but life goes on. He is very good at making me like the bad guy, but everyone tells me it is him. I have reported the theft but no doubt noting will happen. So I have here without transport middle of nowhere and short on money.

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