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DH has stayed friends with a few exes. Most of them are ok, apart from one that I do not like. She has been quite disrespectful to me (in a way that goes over DH's head and it seems to me that she has tried to maintain an emotional connection to my DH still! They were texting quite a bit and I think to her he is "the one that got away". Hence why she has been a bit bitchy towards me. I let him know that I think she's bad news and eventually he began having less contact. They don't see each other now as she moved away.
She is also married but has been having problems/is unhappy, DH says. Anyway she's on Instagram as is my DH and myself. Her husband is not on it, he doesn't have a profile and she has never posted any photos of him the entire time she's been on the site (about 5 years) and she posts a lot of photos. Given the issues we've had with her before, DH had stopped texting her some time ago. I also noticed a few weeks back that he's stopped following her on Instagram. This seemed to have come from nowhere, we've not spoken about her recently and I haven't mentioned the unfollowing so I don't know why he did it. She is still following him but she didn't post anything over a month after he removed her from his page, and she's a regular poster. But suddenly she's back on it posting lots of photos of herself and even a few of the husband! I was quite surprised at this because previously it's like he didn't exist. And suddenly there she is smiling beside her husband. It seems like an act to me.
I wondered if she is still texting my husband and he's hiding it and this sudden appearance of her looking couply with her DH is to try and throw me off the scent? I told a friend and she said perhaps the ex is trying to make my DH jealous by flaunting the pics of her looking happy with her husband. What do you think? I will bring it up with DH at some point, I'm just wondering what she's playing at.
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DH's ex's behavior
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MysBliss · 09/02/2018 21:35
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