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How do you actually get him to move out?

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merlotplease Thu 07-Dec-17 15:56:24

3 years long story but basically we have been together for 10 years. Living abroad for 3 and a half. Since we have lived away my DH has been abusing alcohol to the extent where he has a split personality. Lovely funny drunk when out with friends, then unreasonable verbally abusive twat when just me. To make matters worse, he thinks I am the problem because I question his bizarre statements and don't like to nod my head and smile when he calls me: a dick, an arsehole, a twat, a fucking nightmare etc.

I don't love him or respect him any more. The problem is we have 2 dc. Eldest 7 and youngest 5. Every time I say right that's it, he accuses me of 'splitting up the family' he forgets conveniently the drunken weekends where he contributes nothing. I could go on and on.

But basically he refuses to leave. How do I get him out?

Rudgie47 Thu 07-Dec-17 15:58:19

Go to see a Solictor and they will help you.
Also you could ring Womens Aid they will help you as well. All the best.

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