I didn't know where to post.... I have 4 wonderful children from my ex and been in a new relationship for 2 years everything was fine at first. Kids loved my partner and he put a lot of effort in now 2 years down the line and living together we found out that I'm expecting his first child and it's gone down hill. Partner is scared as he never thought of being a dad to a newborn (his only had step kids from age of 3 upwards) he said that having sex is taboo and now doesn't feel comfortable with it and has become distant. It may be my hormones and I'm just being silly but he comes home from work and goes straight on his pad and has a good chat with friends on Facebook etc and I'm sat there waiting for conversation. One of his names on a site is 'going thru hell'. If it's that bad why doesn't he leave or does he have it too comfortable here. He has even now got snapchat etc which I'm suspicious about wondering why now? My partner has weekends off and I hate them (I don't work). He expects my kids to be quiet and always asks my kids to fetch him things like is pop or his shoes if he is popping out and my littles ones do it!! I've told him to get them himself but he doesn't. Then my 7 year old told me today that he likes weekdays as it's just me, he doesn't like my partner shouting at him to sit still or be quiet and that he always has to get things for him (my partner even shouts them from downstairs to get his pop from the kitchen). We have come from an abusive relationship and I always said to myself that my kids will come first but now I'm doubting myself. Do I talk to my partner and tell him what my 7yr old said. I don't know what to do my partner doesn't use violence which I love but obviously my kids are not happy. Can someone advise me please and tell me if I'm being over sensitive or not!!
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