Went lc with DM due to long term issues (started when I was in my early teens. Never had any confidence. Constant criticism)
All was fine up until I met dh - then because I wasn't pandering to every need she started becoming spiteful. I would go as far as to say tried to put dh off me. The whole world revolves around her needs.
Whole big story. Anyway. I cry after every visit and suffer a bit with low level depression but I am OK. Stressful job. Two young DC. If I visit she will shout where have been all day. She once said she wished she was dead because of me. Then she went for counselling and said it was because of me.
I don't know what I have done. I studied and was very quiet. Never too anything for granted. Moved away at 17 and never returned.
Anyway. Nearly no contact and feel dreadful - so so hurt. Don't want to contact her as more sh** will be said. Anyone know how to help?
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Littlelambpeep · 02/12/2017 21:41
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