My friend is having marriage trouble. Her husband is lovely, but he can be a bit controlling. I have been a good friend, helped out where I can and have been an ear when she has needed it (since April or so last year). She has just moved out temporarily to get some space and it seems like a weight has been lifted from her shoulders. They have been to counselling but have only had a few sessions.
I saw her husband today and asked how he was so he started to tell me that he didn't understand why she had left etc etc. Then he proceeded to tell me that his wife had been asking him to sleep with someone else so she could watch. He declined. He also said that he had found her in the bath with a woman. Now, I love my friend and figure that her personal life is just that - personal - it's not my business. But I'm not sure whether to warn her that her husband is telling people this kind of stuff. He thinks she has gone mad. Her FIL also told me she had had an affair. I'm not sure whether to ask if it's true (it wouldn't affect our relationship - it's her business) or whether to warn her what they are saying. I don't think I'm the only one he's told you see. Anyway - what would you do? I don't think I should ignore what he says. Help!
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What do I tell my friend?
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Ironmanrocks · 21/11/2017 21:00
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