I split with my partner of 25 years 10 months ago, it was always an abusive, violent relationship, in many ways.When I first asked him to leave, after he did something bad, he sat out in the car and tried to kill himself.Ever since he has left, he has access to his 11 year old, twice a week at my home, as my son will not leave the house with him, so the ex has to come here.Everytime he comes, he wants to know where I am going.He keeps saying I am having men in my house, which is rubbish.The final straw last week, he came pointing in my face calling me a dirty sl** because I wouldn't tell him everywhere I go.This carried on for about an hour.He said he will have people watching my home to see if any men come there (I recorded this with my phone)He constantly sends texts to his sons phone threatening social services because he thinks I have a man here.I told him yesterday to phone them in front of me if he is concerned but he won't.He said if I ever get a new boyfriend he will kill him.This is just the tip of the iceberg, I just want to know, is there anyway I can stop him behaving like this, it's not fair on my son or me, it's making me ill, I just need to recover from the hell he put me through, but he is still doing it.Thankyou in advance for any advice.
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