Ok here goes - so boyf started a new job last June. The co have had money problems since he started. Delayed pay, salary here and there etc but he's stayed coz he likes them, he's good at what he does, good relationship with them etc
It's got progressively worse financially
He's been paid nothing since August
The company are awaiting contracts with apparently are coming
But we have had so much stress it's causing me anxiety, I feel stressed, and I can't really talk to my partner as when I do he feels torn as I know he really wants it to work
Anyway we were saving for a house
We have the deposit with what he is owed but as he hasn't been paid we've no chance of getting a mortgage any time soon
So we are thinking of moving in wth parents for 6m to save the deposit up again
But I've basically said I will only do that if he finds another job
He said I'm giving him an ultimatum but I don't think it's fair to move in and just let him think I think it's ok to not get paid and not save any money in the process ?!
We will have it back in 6m if they don't end up paying but he's working it all out on still getting paid
He can't see why it's unsettling me and I feel like I'm telling him what to do which I hate
Please can someone talk to me
We argue when I try talk to him
And don't really have anyone I can talk to
Thank you x
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starmadgirl · 11/11/2017 18:07
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