So, assuming men and women can be friends, where does the line blur between best buddies and emotional affair?
If two friends of the opposite sex (one married and one single) become best friends and meet for coffee, chat about their relationships, single person discusses people they are dating, they text for advice and support and are generally as any close best friends are, does that sound ok? If neither admit any romantic feelings to the other and they just enjoy hanging out, should it matter that they are of the opposite sex?
The friend who is married, is emotionally close to someone of the opposite sex. If the friendship was with someone of the same sex it would be seen as great, but because of gender it is seen as a threat to their marriage and terms like emotional affair are banded about. But is it an emotional affair?
I often see threads where a partner is discovered messaging alot/being close to someone and the posters all tell the OP it is an emotional affair, even without anything sexual.
So, what I am trying to get at, is can a man and woman be close/best friends? Where is the line? If you are the partner of the person in the friendship, how can you distinguish whether your partner has a best friend or is having an emotional affair??
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Dottie39 · 07/11/2017 08:59
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