I don't think my partner finds me attractive any more. I have put on a lot of weight in the 3 years since we met. He has also gained a bit of weight, not as much as me. Neither of us were slim, I'm now quite fat. I've still got a pretty face, I wear nice clothes. But I am conscious of my size.
There is very little intimacy in our relationship. He's had a really awful year, major health issues, loss, redundancy. I've always thought there was more to relationships than the physical but I am concerned. He's not raised it. I haven't. It's like a huge elephant in the room we're both skirting around.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Concerned our relationship is going down some kind of dead end
20 replies
Elikan · 31/10/2017 20:32
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.