Hi everyone.
I started a thread on here about 6 weeks ago when my partner of 6 years left me and my 2 children felt like my world had ended. ( Came home one day and he had gone. )Still no "valid" reason why, apart from we didn't have sex enough. He's been so unbelievably nasty. Anyway, mutual friend called me tonight to ask my why I hadn't told her about his new Mrs? I was so utterly shocked , I felt faint, I wanted to be sick and I never have felt pain like it in all my life. We have been separated 8 weeks!!! 8!! And already madly in love with someone else??? We are 23, and she is 36. His remark to our friend was at least she is financially stable and gives me a good time at night. Like seriously ???? I am only financially "unstable" because I went to uni to do my nursing degree with the promise he would support me. 6 month from qualifying and he walks out. All I've wanted was for him to come back begging and now it appears he really doesn't give a monkeys the pain he has caused. In the 8 weeks he has had his kids overnight 2x. It appears it's too much hassle. His mother sent me abuse saying it's my own fault for having kids young (I was 19 , but I have been a better mum than she ever was!) and basically saying I'm a shit mum because my 4 year old cut his own hair last week. I feel like everyone is kicking me whilst I'm down. And now just as I get back on my feet, smashing placement , raising my kids alone, I get the news he has someone new? And now I'm distraught all over again. I guess that little bit of hope has completely vanished now. Everyone says it's a blessing in disguise but all I want is my family back as one. :( :( i really need to hear some success story's of coming out on top. I'm really struggling tonight xxxx
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Lifesonlyjustbeginning · 28/10/2017 23:04
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