I wasn't sure whether to put this in relationships or mental health but think I'd like opinions in general.
I've recently started seeing someone-been single for around 18 months-saw a few guys the first 6 months (rebound sex) then no one since until the new man.
It was meant to be a ONS (met on tinder-both straight up on what we wanted), turned out we got on so well it has gone on and we've got together and fallen in love.
It has been fast - most BPD relationships are unfortunately, the only thing is is that I'm not controlling this one. I'm actually being me rather than manipulative me.
I'm so worried for when I'm bad though that I'm ruining it. He's an optimist, I'm me and waiver between such highs and lows that I know I'm going to put him off.
Is the best bet to fully explain BPD (he is aware I have it-would not let someone get close without warning them), and hope he'll understand?
I feel home around him, it's only my illness that makes me worry and I really don't want to sabotage it.
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New boyfriend, I have BPD
callmehannahbaker · 28/10/2017 16:19
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