Despite all the posts on here about my marriage, I would say we don’t actually argue that much now. What we have is DH saying something that hurts my feelings but sometimes instead of just apologising, he starts a debate as to whether I should have been upset in the first place & then it escalates & he comes up with excuses. I have techniques up my sleeve to handle this differently!
I wouldn’t say having DD makes us argue more but it’s more stressful & we do sometimes disagree on parenting. Again, that’s way better than it was & it makes a huge difference that we are a united front.
Money was a massive thing for us but our financial situation is improving which has taken the pressure off.
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What do you mainly argue about & have you argued more since having kids?
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tigercub50 · 26/10/2017 08:18
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