my ggrandmother lost her mother when she was young.
my gm lost her mother when she was young.
my dm lost her mother when she was just 4yrs.
my dm lost her "special" daughter when she was 13yrs.
my dm gave up on us and life, (4 dd) after losing her dd and dying shortly after..
my eldest dsis met a much older man when she was young, who isolated her, abused her throughout their marriage, she is now alone.
my younger dsis met a much older man, who rules and isolated her.
the younger sibling met an older man, who ruled her .
I met a man 2 years younger, married for 30 years and very happy.
my eldest dd met a much much older man, totally manipulative/ cruel/bully/ who has isolated dd, don't even know where she is living.
my younger dd met a much older man, who isolated her, dripping poison in against what family she had left.
my ds met a much older divorced women when he was young, who isolated him, financially blackmailed /controlled him until he was on his knees.
(he is now alone but a wonderful kind and caring man.)
as I read this back, what part in all this did I play, what did I do wrong, what could I have done to prevent my family being torn to bits??
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my family is torn to bits(going back generations)
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torntobits · 24/10/2017 10:04
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