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Should I confront my friend...

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Footballwidow88 · 18/10/2017 11:14

One of my best friends has recently started being bitchy and I'm not sure whether or not I should confront her? There's 3 of us in the friendship group and we've been best friends for years. A few years ago I moved away from the city we all lived in but we've always kept in touch and meet up regularly. I've recently got engaged and asked both of my friends to be bridesmaid. However, 1 of my friends is being funny with me, not replying to messages and making snide comments within the group chat etc. She seems to be fine with our other friend. We've not fallen out so I'm not sure why her attitude towards me has changed.

How should I approach this with her? I dont want to start a row but I don't want this to fester either.

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Littlechocola · 18/10/2017 11:15

Just ask ‘are you okay?’

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SweetheartTreacleTart · 18/10/2017 11:19

Yes approach her and explain that you've noticed a difference in her attitude towards you and ask if everything is okay between you both.

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Angelf1sh · 18/10/2017 13:28

Ask her. Sort it out now before it gets too far and your days away from your wedding and hating her but worried she’ll ruin your day if you drop her (you see those threads all the time). If it’s still in the early stages, whatever the problem is can probably be easily solved. If it can’t, or if she denies there’s a problem but carries on bitching then I’d retract the bridesmaid offer sooner rather than later. Good luck!

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Angelf1sh · 18/10/2017 13:28

*you’re. Damn you autocorrect.

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