So my boyf has always had a bad temper, it's caused us problems in the past but through am and talking it's got better
But
He can still get moody, grumpy huffy puffy which I've kind of accepted as it's him and his personality and he has lots other good points
I'm not perfect in any way so don't want it to sound like I'm looking for that coz I'm not
Weekend shit hit the fan
Long story but we are a group of friends and things got said where he didn't tell me something minor but anyway it led to an argument
The argument leads me to getting upset to the point where i cry
That's how I deal with it
He deals with it my being macho, mean and saying I'm a drama queen, and when I cry saying here we go...
I told him not to do that as it upsets me but he still does it
We ended uo arguing so much over the weekend about the issue with my friends / his friends that we haven't even addressed why he upset me in the 1st place ?!
I don't want to spend the rest of my life being with someone who makes me feel upset..might sound minor but I'm really questioning if I should be with someone who I don't think is willing to meet me half way?
We've broken up before and always got back together but I just want a happy content relationship
It just seems we go round in circles
He's arrested about money and works 2 jobs but I'm also feeling lonely and the fact he doesn't help me with stuff in the house I feel like a single mum. I've felt like this for a while when I've tried to talk to him all I do is cry and it pisses him off
I feel like I'm in a rut and I can't see the wood for the trees
I don't have anyone to talk to as my family and friends don't like him for things he has done in the past so I don't have anyone to talk to
Would be great to find someone to talk to x
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Bad tempered boyf
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girlflower · 16/10/2017 07:47
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