Funny I make this thread after my so called singledom pledge yesterday. Anyway, you get to know a guy online, you really just click, spend hours chatting for over a week, but don't exchange phone numbers yet. Youve been single for a very long time, you want to give yourself a chance at happiness but are just so damn scared. So you decide to block him at the very first chance, how do you justify it? Well, he's just another player. 2 days after blocking him, you realise that you've made a massive mistake, you could have talked it through etc..so you decide to unblock him, and wait for him to log back in...that story happened 2 months ago.
I know it sounds absolutely ridiculous, like how many guys create fake online accounts, how many are just looking for 'fun' etc etc etc but I have this unshakeable feeling that he was genuine, my mind is not at rest but for some reason i had decided to cut it short, not because I didn't like him, but running away was the easiest option. It's like I'm scared of having a relationship, of commitment. I've come to realise that, and I'm working on it. In the meantime, I am desperate to get in touch with him, not via that website as hes not logging in, but via his workplace. He told me the name and place of where he works. There's about 6 options when I call, no idea which dep he works in, and I dont know his last name. I know what I've written sounds pathetic, but that's the beauty of anonymity on the internet. Anyway, how could I get through to him? Would leaving a message with my name and number to the receptionist, and give his name and brief description work? Whatever the outcome, i feel like i want to try to speak with him, set the records straight. Am I just being unreasonable? I'm confused and have been for the last 2 months..
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Batulay · 10/10/2017 18:31
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