I've been with DP for 7 years. We get along really well, kind generous, we have good conversations, sense of humour, values.
But I'm bored with how the relationship is. I want to move it on, buy a home, get a dog, maybe have kids. He says he wants those things too but he doesn't make any effort to get there unless I nag and nag and then he might for a day be on the case. It's made me confused. Does he really want those things or is he just too scared to say no or is he not really that bothered either way. I've been saying this for a few years now but nothing really changes. This stagnation in the relationship has made me really weary. I'm wondering whether I should just cut my losses and go. I'm 30 and don't want to hang around forever.
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Blueisthenightsky · 10/10/2017 07:35
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