So my granddad has got dementia. Hes in a care Home. Me and my family are not close at all but I respect my grandparents esp my granddad because he’s the only real father figure I had growing up. I spent a lot of time at my grandparents house. We are not a ‘huggy’ Or an emotional family at all! But I really look up to my granddad. I need to see him at the care Home but he won’t know me because he had dementia and I am so scared m. I’ve not seen him since he got really bad and I’m scared of how he’s going to be. I know I’ll get upset seeing him like that and I don’t like crying in front of my Mum and Nan ( like I said emotion is hidden in our family) but I know I wil end up getting upset Because of the way he is now... he’s no longer able to function or remember anyone. How do I cope with seeing Him like that?? I will regret it if I don’t but how do i pluck up the courage to see him??? He means a lot to me!
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hemakesmesad · 08/10/2017 20:44
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