My husband left me nearly 4 months ago for someone he met at work and moved in with her after 5 weeks. I had no idea at all that things were going wrong apart from the fact that we were in quite a bit of debt and struggling with money (which I've had to take out an IVA for as it was all in my name!). He has left me before but not to this extent (it seems to be a re-occuring pattern every 2 years) and not whilst we've been married (only married for 2 years, but together for 8 1/2) He has said he still loves me and doesn't want me to divorce him (I can't afford to anyway) and then changes his mind, says that he doesn't love me and that he is going to put in for a Legal Separation, I've not heard anything yet! He has had no contact with my daughter (his step daughter) for 2 weeks and all of a sudden calls her when he is drunk, asks where I am and says he is going to drop a birthday card around for her the next day, which he did with money in. I can only contact him via email. He has been diagnosed previously with a mild personality disorder (I'm sure it is a narcissistic personality disorder) which is one of the reasons I've tried to put up with his behaviour. He is also a professional in the caring sector so should know better. I'm not sure how to proceed or what is going on in his head, help!!
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