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What fresh hell? My divorce is becoming traumatic

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PawsyMcPawFace · 21/09/2017 14:37

I tried to do things nicely. I shouldn't have bothered. He's been stringing me along and being vicious with it. I can't believe i'm in this position now.

I don't want to give any details just yet as I'll be having an emergency court hearing tomorrow. I feel sick. I've had palpitations for weeks. I'm shaking like a leaf.

I'm scared. Fuck.

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GertiesEyebrow · 21/09/2017 14:41

Sending strength.
Remember, this is just a moment in time. You'll be looking back on it at one point remembering how strong you were. X

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ravenmum · 21/09/2017 14:48

Speak to your doctor, e.g. to attempt to get sleep, and if things are moving too fast, stick in your toes and go at your own speed if possible. Be kind to yourself and concentrate on just getting past this.

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justbehappy · 22/09/2017 23:51

Hope you got on ok today

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Autumnskiesarelovely · 23/09/2017 00:02

Hold on there. Courts are usually ok.

I'm going through break up number two with kids, but I know that it usually goes ok in the end. Just don't worry too much, as long as you and kids are ok, try and stick to your guns, don't get into any fights, get a good solicitor. Live your life, at least this shows you made the right decision to leave.

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