I left dh because he didn't love me, didn't care for me and I couldn't stand it. I tried for two years and longer to get him to see how unhappy it was making me. What was more frustrating was he would insist he did love me and yet showed me no love or compassion.
A month after I left him he has another woman and is head over heels for her. He can't do enough for her and they are going on a honeymoon type holiday now three months later.
I told him I was struggling with it feeling guilty and ashamed at our failed marriage and didn't understand how given he was saying he loved me to the end and wouldn't acknowledge that I felt he didn't, that he can now move on so fast.
He said I'd made it clear I was leaving and yes he had wanted to keep going but now thinks it was mainly for the kids and because of what people would think
I just feel so cheated that he didn't try more and can move on so quickly to a love that he had for me once. I know I need to move on and let go but I can't stop thinking about them and why I couldn't make him see my pain and work at our relationship instead of making me feel it was all my issue as he still loved me.
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Whoopeewanda · 07/08/2017 05:48
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