I have posted here and received lovely help. Long story short. Thought I was happily married for 25 years. Yes he was controlling and dismissive of me but I loved our family and the life we had worked to create. No idea, none that he was unhappy. Discovered affair. 2 days later he left with a rucksack. Not a word. Nothing.
So many hurtful things followed, a romantic holiday with his mistress ten days later, kindly posted by her on Facebook. Comments to family that finally, FINALLY he had found love. It was almost too hurtful to bear.
I'm being brave. Moving away. New home, new job. Dealing with everything on my own. Moving, clearing money worries. Adult kids with me. All friends horrified at the cruelty.
But I'm so sad. And scared sometimes. And feel just a bit worthless.
Could you just reassure me that I'm ok. That it's going to be ok?
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midnightsnacking · 28/06/2017 20:40
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