I have no one I can have a conversation with. Not a proper chat, you know?
My two close female friends now live in different timezones and are very busy, we talk about once every 4 months or so. DP and I are having issues at the moment, lack of proper communication being a massive one. We're doing more arguing than talking. And even when we do talk, he doesn't know how to do the kind of chit chat I need, it has to be all about him.
My mum doesn't do small talk (she's autistic). I haven't made friends in the town we live in now. No one I can call and have a chat with. The other people I used to be friends with before kids all seem to have drifted away, mostly because they've been busy with their kids too. No time or money to do anything about it.
I used to be a very social person, and there was always someone I could pick the phone up to or go and visit. Now I have no one to talk to. I talk to people through my work, but I'm not being the real me, they're my clients.
I've started to talk to myself! How long will it go on like this? Do I have to wait for the kids to grow up enough to have sa decent conversation?!
If I read this post and someone else had written it I'd say get out there, make friends. And I will when I can. But right now things are so shit (DP is depressed and newly out of work, I'm working all the days I can to try to clear our debts, our house it too much of a shit pit to invite people into - no time energy or money to make new friends).
I've been on MN for years and it's helped, but RL has got much shitter in that time and I need to have a friend in RL. I think I need to get out of this fucking town maybe.
Not sure why I posted really - maybe someone has a miracle solution?!
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utterchaos · 24/06/2017 23:11
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