Hand hold please?

crimminyjicket · 2017-06-23 17:48:07

So nc for various reasons I THINK i have reached my limit when it comes to my husband and he will be due home from the "pub" shortly and have told him we need to talk. I do not like the person I have become. Used to be a chilled out, life loving, caring blah blah person. But all i seem to do at the moment, and in the words of my husband is Nag. Been with each other 15 years. 2 dc. One being under 2. So husband has taken to going to the pub 3/4 times a week. I get that everyone needs chill out time. But im at my wits end with this and cant really explain why! Ive been out 3 times in 2 years and he does not understand what is so wrong with it and I blow it out of proportion! Im literally angry, anxious, and my point of view is unimportant. I feel invalid and disrespected in my relationship and emotionally he is not there for me anymore. He feels more like a bad friend than a husband. How do i start this conversation? Im rubbish and end up waffling and never can get my point across. Im trying not to get upset in front of the children but keep welling up!

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