Hello,
Me and my partner have been together for 3 years now. He's cheated on me in the last and also his exes so I knew what I was letting myself in for but thought maybe as he got older he would change as he always says he wants a grown up relationship as he's 36!! We have our arguements and there have been messages I've been sent from other girls saying they have been seeing him etc. He's works in the nightclub industry so does know and see a lot of people. I understand why he does that job because it brings in the extra money we need. I just don't like the fact girls thing it's ok to message him also and winds me up even more about that fact that he will hide things. Obviously he tells me I'm just being stupid. But it's still hard to forget. I always tell him I want him to be honest and open with me but he seems to struggle with that. He has a phone list as long as my arm of girls numbers which he just won't delete yet as far as I'm aware he doesn't speak to. Some of these girls are girls who have causes issues in the past.
Following a disagreement today he has said he doesn't want us to have a relationship buts it's just easy for him because I help to look after his children when he's at work!
I just feel like I've been completely living in a false and fake relationship which I've put my all into but I get nothing back : (
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kellyjane020486 · 22/06/2017 18:55
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