We've been together 12 years, married for 8 and have 3 children 2,4 and 6.
Things have been going down hill four years, he's just not the man I married. He's depressed, angry and selfish. He sought help for a bit but decided he was fine, we went to counseling and he made promise which were never kept. I got tired of being ignored with no warmth or feeling. I cheated and he didn't react when I told him. I'm not sure what I thought would happen, all I know is, that's not me. I'm not that kind of person and if that's what I've become then this relationship is beyond saving.
I hate him for not carrying more when our daughter died, I planned a funeral alone. He was meant to look after me, instead he heard me cry and walked away. I hate him for not being there when I'm exhausted from being up all night, for making me make all the decisions and accept the consequences as my own. But mostly I hate him for not loving me more. For not seeing me as a parter and just a mother.
This isn't how my happily ever after was meant to turn out. How the fuck do I raise 3 children on my own?
Why did he stop caring, u just don't understand what I did to make this turn to shut.
How do I get through this? I just don't know anymore
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haggyloops · 22/06/2017 13:33
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