Hiya. I will keep brief, basically I have been feeling for a long time that there is just something 'not right' about my relationship with my older boyfriend. Theres a big age gap between us, but i have been thinking hes been cheating on me for ages now. I have done snooping and theres nothing ive found really and im just left confused. Its not paranoia its more a gut instinct that something is just wrong and im finding it so hard to explain. Our sex waxes and wanes, I will say I make alot of effort, toys new underwear etc go all out but still it is most def not as much as it used to be and at times he wont even let me touch or kiss him and becomes insenced at the notion of sex (not every time but pretty much). He puts me down and generally seems 'disinterested' Im in my 20s and i consider myself to be well kept, i havent let myself go expect for a little weight due to contracpetion - im really not talking alot and frequently am told im attractive by others (not being conceted just explaining). Its just the fact that he really doesnt seem to be interested, when we do have sex sometimes it is good but his behaviour towards me has changed so much and he seems to find everything i do annoying these days, i cant do anything right and i love him so much, i know some people will say if some of the sex we have is so good why am i complaining or even thinking hes cheating its just his behaviour is not right at all. He seems angry, frustrated angry at me: the world. And he really for the most part never initates the sex its always me and he is usually so angry when i do initate, like its the worst thing i could have ever suggested. It makes no sense, and sometimes yes he is fliriting with other women and its so crushing to see it. I hope after reading this someone can give advice because i am soo confused and its affecting me so much. Thanks all.
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