I am the poster whose mum and sister had an actual physical fight as I was serving up dinner to family on Xmas eve. They were upstairs in my house, I will never know who started it/what really happened. They've always had a rocky relationship, but this was a new low and I haven't really been able to forgive either of them since.
I let my mum see my DC, as they adore her and she's good to them. I don't spend any time with her that I don't absolutely have to (I.e. Dropping the DC off). She is critical and lacks self awareness.
I've text my sister but have only seen her once. She's had a tough year, health wise, but again I can't bring myself to be around her. She has a violent temper, is v entitled and resents me for being (she thinks) the golden child.
It's nearly June, and I just can't believe our family has broken down so completely. I have 2 daughters and it would break my heart if we ended up like this. It's starting to make me feel so sad, but I just don't know how to move on. My dad has managed to not to get dragged into it - what a bloody saint. I just feel stuck and have no clue how to move on?
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How to move on after fallout with family?
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SexNamesRFab · 17/05/2017 23:57
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