Me and DH have been arguing a lot lately- the stress of a high needs baby, my PND and his mental health problems (severe anxiety). But tonight I think we reached a breaking point.
He came home at 5pm saying he was ill and needed a 20 minuite nap before he could help me with the children. I was desperate for a hand the PND has been awful today but agreed. At 6pm there was still no sign of him so I woke him and asked him either to take our oldest DC or the baby. He sat with the baby on the sofa while I did the dinner/ bedtime routine.
Later he had a massive go at me for asking to help when he feels so ill and being moody that he had much longer than the 20 min agreed nap. He ended up calling me a fucking bitch and saying he can't stand me. He's gone back to bed and I'm sat up furious/ devastated. I can't cope with the children on my own :(
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NameChanger4000 · 16/05/2017 20:13
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