Sorry it's a long one, I feel absolutely heartbroken writing this. Me and my partner got together August 2015, in December I had heard from a friend that he had slept with someone behind my back. I obviously confronted him about it but he denied it, having full trust in him I believed him and after that little hiccup we carried on as normal. In march 2016 I found out we were going to have a baby (not planned), bit of a shock but happy as ever. A few months after that we were both in Tesco, and we bumped into the woman who he apparently slept with behind my back. As soon as she seen me she immediately turned the other way and tried to avoid me completely, which to me is definitely a guilty thing to do. i asked him again if he went behind my back and he got all defensive and denied it again. Anyway fast forward to now we have a beautiful daughter, a mortgage and we also got engaged. Today I confronted him about it again and told him I do not want to enter married life with any secrets, he finally admitted doing it after me thinking I was going crazy. Things between us are the best they have been through the whole relationship and I don't want our family to fall apart. I believe him when he says it was a stupid drunk mistake and it will never happen again. I'm trying to move on but I don't know how to, does anyone have any advice in what we can do to rebuild the trust in this relationship? Or has anyone been in the same situation as me and they've managed to get on with things or did the relationship eventually break down?
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