Hi all. I need some advice on something and if anyone else has gone through same sort of thing. My partner and i have been together almost 3 years. We've been engaged for almost a year of that and are expecting a baby in August. I've had ongoing issues with one of his female friends. She is married. I've never even really met her but she is so rude to me for absolutely no reason and it gets me down. It gets me down that he doesn't say anything to her, if it was the other way round i would say something to my friend, and probably consider no longer being their friend if they didn't stop it. But maybe that is just my principles. I've made it clear to him that i'm not happy them being friends as i find it disrespectful from him that he lets someone say nasty things about his fiancee and mother of his unborn baby. Before anyone says anything, he has other female friends and i have no problem with them as they have no problem with me. Last week he went to Netherlands to visit family (he is originally from there). He promised he wasn't going to see her while he was over there. He said he was annoyed at her anyway (she let a plant die that had been a present from his late grandma, he had had it a while). Anyway long story short, he comes back and tells me he'd just seen her husband (his original friend) and not her. I found out he had lied so i asked again and he still said he hadn't. Eventually he admitted it 2 days later after i didn't drop it. I'm so annoyed that he saw her but i'm more annoyed that he lied. All he seems to do is lie to me. I'm already thinking of breaking up with him. I want him to be a dad still but i can't take being lied to all the time and feeling like he is choosing her over me :/
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