I am 31 years old. Been with my husband for 5 years. Married for 3, have a 2 year old son.
When we first got together everything was great - loads of chemistry. He was, and still is, the most honest, hard working and genuine person I've ever met. I love him very much.
But something has just gone. We don't have sex anymore. And I know that lots of couples with young kids don't because they're knackered etc. I do feel like that is part of it and for a long time I just didn't want to be touched after spending all day with the baby. But now I'm feeling like I want sex again but just not with him.
I feel so guilty writing that. He is wonderful but I don't seem to find him attractive anymore. I've been thinking a lot about someone else and I can't understand why. I don't want this to be happening. I want my relationship with my husband to be back to normal but I don't know how to do that. I don't want to keep thinking about this other person. It's making me so sad and frustrated.
What do I do?
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brokendolls · 27/04/2017 21:56
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