I've done something stupid. I opened a letter for DH and have found out he is being taken to court for a financial issue. I KNOW I shouldn't have opened the letter but I struggle to trust DH and could tell it was a court letter.
So as not to drip feed, this stems from about 18 months ago when I found DH had been on various dating sites (he had a profile but hadn't messaged anyone). We worked through this and I thought now our relationship was better than ever. The DC are a bit older, DH has a new job and we seem happier.
Anyway, I was expecting DH to tell me about the situation when he opened the letter. He didn't. I've left it a week thinking he would tell me. He hasn't. I've also had a conversation with him around this where he had opportunity to tell me and he didn't, which to me is lying.
So I now have a problem; this situation itself but also much wider questions because of what happened before. I'm really hurt that he hasn't told me. He'd be the first one I'd want to speak to if I had a problem. I'm also thinking if he's lied about this to my face, what else is he lying about.
I don't know what to do. I don't want DH going through this alone but at the moment I'm really mad at him for lying again.
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RainbowFloss · 22/04/2017 19:05
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