I'm feeling really lost and don't know what to do. DH and I have a 9 month old. For the last few months our relationship has got worse and worse. We only talk about DS, we never have sex or any intimacy/affection at all. We have some money issues.
I thought the problem was money. That DH resented me because he works all hours (is self employed) and I was made redundant just before DS was born and haven't been able to find work since.
Now it turns out that he has in fact been angry and resentful for years, since I had (and still have) depression. He said he's felt alone. I asked the other day if he still loves me and he said he still has feelings for me and cares for me. I took that as a no and was devastated. I feel betrayed and that everything in the last couple of years has been a lie, that he's had all these poisonous feelings towards me and I had no idea. Then yesterday he said he'd thought about it and he did still love me and wanted to make it work. I feel all over the place. I have no friends or family to talk about this with. I want to make it work but I don't know what to believe now or how to feel or what to do next.
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Tigerstripes · 21/04/2017 00:08
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