My husband of 4 years has just returned from a business trip to a major US city, one where he has previously lived and worked before we met. I have no reason to suspect anything. However last night I had a peek at his phone. I don't use fb and I sometimes nosy at his, he's fine with this. I went to search for something, it pops up his last search was his ex from city he's just got back from. I was gonna just put it down to curiosity but I'm kind of hurt by this. Currently 7 months pregnant with our second, I admit it very busy and he doesn't get much attention now - we have a very demanding 2 year old who I care for full time. I'm in bed at 8pm most nights, he works away during the week. He's been snapping at me constantly since his return, glued to his phone (nothing unusual there) and I want to know if I'm over reacting or not. Do I even bring this up? I hope it's not the start of him starting to "wonder" about all the past and what ifs and have beens. I feel fat and ugly right now and I'm just hurt. It doesn't help that he barely made contact on the trip either, said he was very busy. Do I talk to him about this or not?
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