I've been thinking about this lately.
I was part of a group of friends but there were some issues between me and one of them and as a result, I ended up out. I'm still on good terms with 2 and talk to another if I see her, which is rare, but since the minor falling out, I was never invited by any of them again.
It has been bugging me as it was minor and a mixture of crossed wires I think and minor fault on both sides. But then part of me thinks she was a bit of a cow to me, but she thought I was ditching them in favour another group, I wasnt. I felt that she didn't really like me, but I tend to think that about everyone. I've struggled with MH issues for years and wanted to just take a step back from everything but must have done it badly. I'm also waiting for an assessment for aspergers as I do have social difficulties.
Anyway, it's been bothering me lately as I have friends but they never seem to have time for me, I may get a quick hour of their time if I'm lucky. I feel pretty isolated and lost at the moment. This group, we did have some fun and all our DCs got on well. We had great days ou and I miss it.
Do you think I should try and contact the one I had the falling out with? What would I even say? I hate confrontation and can't deal with it. I get panicky and would rather just hide away from it but I can't keep going through life like this, although I don't seem to have the social skills to deal with it properly.
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HarryPottersMagicWand · 15/04/2017 23:16
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